Do not feel that way. Your kid will be the greatest gift to you. You can guide him/her along but it is up to the child to see what if he/she likes to achieve. As long your child is kind, honest and is a loving and caring person he/she has achieved the best in life - and you as a parent. Everything else is gravy. There should not be pressure that your kid has to win something. It will come naturally as he/she develops confidence and know where he/she wants to go in life. Even if she/he does not win something, your love for the child will be the most wonderful thing they can experience as they grow. If you inspire confidence in your child she/he will develop on their own. You are nurturing a seed that is all. You can be proud of them and proud of yourself for having raised a good kid. I always remember my parents although they are gone now. That's what they did. They never require me to win anything but they keep instilling me with confidence and let me find my own way. There is never any pressure for me to do well. However, I feel that they appreciate my effort to do well and always gave me words of encouragement. In my mind I will always remember and love them, even now as I am growing old. I remember I did my Level 1 in march 2000 and I dedicated that to my Dad who passed on in February that same year. My dad was strong and big and I am small and weak. I said to him in my heart: "Dad you would be proud of me - a tiny little dunkie and yet I was able to ski and passed my exam". Good luck on your exam soon Arroga and we will all be proud of you!
雷达卡
发表于 2011-2-28 20:16:52
显身卡
发表于 2011-2-28 20:22:09
