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作者: Bingster 时间: 2011-4-18 20:56
标题: 留学生遇害
本帖最后由 Bingster 于 2011-4-18 20:59 编辑

留学生遇害
http://info.51.ca/news/canada/2011/04/17/223401.shtml

记住，有人敲门不要开门。如果他要借电话，你可以帮助他打那个电话，但是不能开门。如果对方情况非常急迫，你可以帮助他打911。告诉他（她）police is coming。但是不能开门。
开门就是可能死亡。
这是很早以前ESL老师告诉我们的。去告诉所有中国来的人，他们对这里不够了解。

在晚上，就算是你认识的人也不能开门了。（对于你认识的熟习的中国朋友可能是可以例外的）
对于女生，白天，认识的人也最好不要开门。

作者: bullpower 时间: 2011-4-18 21:02
沙发，总之就是别开门

作者: Bingster 时间: 2011-4-18 21:13
对于女生，她们还有一个格言：不要跟陌生人讲话。Don't talk to strangers.

作者: Phoenixtear 时间: 2011-4-18 21:53
以后铲点雪在家里滑吧，这世界太疯狂了，还是甭出去了

作者: luvski 时间: 2011-4-18 22:11

Bingster 发表于 2011-4-18 21:56
留学生遇害
http://info.51.ca/news/canada/2011/04/17/223401.shtml

早上在收音机里听到这个新闻，很震惊。

作者: paul_zhou 时间: 2011-4-18 22:17
主流媒体和华人的报道好像不符.

作者: arooga 时间: 2011-4-18 22:18

paul_zhou 发表于 2011-4-18 22:17
主流媒体和华人的报道好像不符.

是不符很多添油加醋的成分描叙的真详细.....

作者: luvski 时间: 2011-4-18 22:29

paul_zhou 发表于 2011-4-18 23:17
主流媒体和华人的报道好像不符.

我早上听收音机说只是发现她是裸着的，但没有被性侵。

作者: bullpower 时间: 2011-4-18 22:45
越说越像CSI 或者 CRIMINAL MIND剧情了

作者: smellfish 时间: 2011-4-19 10:39
世风日下

作者: Bingster 时间: 2011-4-19 12:11
他们的世风就没有好过。

作者: smellfish 时间: 2011-4-19 12:30

Bingster 发表于 2011-4-19 12:11
他们的世风就没有好过。

他们是指？.........

作者: Bingster 时间: 2011-4-19 12:34

smellfish 发表于 2011-4-19 12:30
他们是指？.........

是指加拿大美国这些地方，治安从来不好。

作者: smellfish 时间: 2011-4-19 13:15

Bingster 发表于 2011-4-19 12:34
是指加拿大美国这些地方，治安从来不好。

en, yi gan zi da fan yi chuan ren.

作者: luvski 时间: 2011-4-19 13:23

smellfish 发表于 2011-4-19 14:15
en, yi gan zi da fan yi chuan ren.

en, generalization 不好。不管哪个地方都有这种事发生。

作者: sonicwithtails 时间: 2011-4-19 14:36
本帖最后由 sonicwithtails 于 2011-4-19 15:37 编辑

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crime_in_Toronto

"Crime in Toronto has been relatively low for a very long period of time; the low crime rate in Toronto has resulted in the city having a reputation as one of the safest large cities in North America. Recent data from Statistics Canada shows that crime has been falling steadily in Toronto's census metropolitan area since 1998, a total drop of 33% for all crimes reported between the period of 1998–2008.[1]"

also just for fun...

http://www.cbc.ca/toronto/features/homicide2010/

作者: Bingster 时间: 2011-4-19 14:39

sonicwithtails 发表于 2011-4-19 14:36
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crime_in_Toronto

"Crime in Toronto has been relatively low for a very ...

This statistics certainly didn't help that family which lost their only daughter.

Just be extra careful. Those things we can do in China without being killed, we cannot do them here.

In English: "When in Rome, do as Romans do"

作者: sonicwithtails 时间: 2011-4-19 14:54
本帖最后由 sonicwithtails 于 2011-4-19 16:01 编辑

Bingster 发表于 2011-4-19 15:39
This statistics certainly didn't help that family which lost their only daughter.

Just be extra c ...

Statistics never help anyone. They just refute the argument that Toronto is an unsafe city -- at least by general perception.

I have never been to Rome.

But while you are in Canada, maybe you can do as most other Canadians usually do: relax and smile.

and ski a lot!

I might die if i do not take "extra caution". but somehow i feel happier without. It might actually make sense to lead a more carefree but yet shorter life, shorter by a probability of 3.3 homicide cases per 100000 people.

I will die trusting and loving people, rather than live by locking myself in a house.

作者: Bingster 时间: 2011-4-19 15:20
本帖最后由 Bingster 于 2011-4-19 15:20 编辑

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So your reactions after reading that story of Chinese student got killed are,

First, you say: things are getting better.
Then, you say: relax and smile.

Nobody telling you to lock youself in a house. Just do not open door to people you don't trust, not at 1AM for sure.
And be careful. Don't do those things Canadian people don't do.

作者: c_sea 时间: 2011-4-19 15:32
本帖最后由 c_sea 于 2011-4-19 15:40 编辑

读了这个真的很震惊。为这个女孩的不幸感到难过。
又读了几个在51.ca 上的报道，当时她的男性朋友在中国的网上跟她视频聊天并且看到这个罪案，她那个朋友只是不停地给她在本地的朋友们发短信，而她的朋友们最早检查短信的都是几个小时以后了，赶到现场然后才报的警。如果这个属实的话，　难道他不能直接打电话给她的那些朋友吗？难道他不能直接从中国打911 吗？从网上看见了犯罪却没有采取最迅速的办法，让他的女性朋友就这样白白送命。女孩死的太可惜了，他太TMD的愚蠢了。
据说警方还要跟他联系要视频截图作证据，据说还要他做证人。他太TMD的愚蠢了，我都恨不得去踢他。

作者: sonicwithtails 时间: 2011-4-19 15:35
本帖最后由 sonicwithtails 于 2011-4-19 16:37 编辑

Bingster 发表于 2011-4-19 16:20
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So your reactions after reading that story of Chinese student got killed ...

1. Things DO get better. it is simple truth. why cannot one present simple truth? and why cannot one accept simple truth?

2. yes. relax and smile. or else please prove you can bring back lives by crying.

people die everyday. so should we mourn everyday and never smile or relax? Please do not "fabricate" my argument by making it look like "we should laugh at people who died". I never meant that.

Indeed, opening door to strangers at 1am is not wise. But things like "never talk to strangers, etc" border on being fear mongering.

作者: Bingster 时间: 2011-4-19 15:41

c_sea 发表于 2011-4-19 15:32
读了这个真的很震惊。为这个女孩的不幸感到难过。
又读了几个在51.ca 上的报道，当时她的男性朋友在中国的 ...

他那些朋友晚上好像都关机了。在中国不能直接打这里的911。
但是应该可以打 416-222-TIPS
但是她的男朋友不可能知道。

作者: Bingster 时间: 2011-4-19 15:46
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"Don't talk to strangers." is not from me.
Mothers here educate their daughers this way. Chinese girls should follow the same rule. Otherwise, they are easy targets. Some Chinese women make really stupid mistake here. Some people say, they are like children.

作者: sonicwithtails 时间: 2011-4-19 16:21

Bingster 发表于 2011-4-19 16:46
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"Don't talk to strangers." is not from me.

too late. you are already talking to me...

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